2018年17周: The legend of white snake

Today I will show you a story named The legend of white snake. It’s very famous traditional story in China, there are a lot of versions, I will show you the one.

In tradition, People think if one man died, he must drink a soup named MengPoTang that will make him forget everything. And then, He will be born again and have a new life. so every one has a lot of previous lifes, but unfortunately we often cannot remember that.

Our story starts from their previous life. A shepherd boy saved one small white snake from a man making a living by catch snake.

1700 years later, Shepherd boy becames handsome boy, and catch snake man becames buddhist monk. the small white snake becames huge white snake :), it has magic and becames beautiful girl.

How to talk with a girl and start new relationship? The best way in China is to lend her an umbrella, Xuxian is good at this.

They fell in love when they met and then get married. After married, they worked as docter and saved a lots of people’s life.

Why people can fall in love at first glance? It’s an easy question in our story, because they have story in their previous life. Xu xian helped White snake skip, and White snake also wants to repay. Live is magical feelings that can kept in thousand yeas, hate is also. Fahai doesn’t forget their story, he want to revenge. So fightings between Fahai and the couple is comming.

  • Round one: One day, Fahai met Xuxian and told him “Your wife is a snake”, But Xuxian said: “No, My wife is a human being!”. “Do you dare to drink realgar wine to her?”, “Yes”. And then, White snake drinks realgar wine and becomes the huge white snake. Xu xian was scared to death. At last, White snake steals ganoderma grass and saved her husband back.

  • Round two: Another day, Fahai met Xuxian again and asked him “You wife is snake, Do you believe it now?”. Xuxian said: “Yes, I konw but I don’t care!”. So Fahai locked Xuxian in Jingshan temple. White snake cannot find her husband so she got the water filled the temple. And then, she got her husband back home.

  • Round three: At this time, Fahai met Xuxian and didn’t say anything. He locked White snake to Leifeng Tower directly. Because in last fighting, the water made a lot of people die.

Xuxian has no magic and cannot save her wife. Until her son grow up and get top one in national examination and saved her mother back. Since then, their family has had a happy life.

Why it come down?

  • Happy end
  • Advise people to be kind
  • One hundred filial piety is the first (百善孝为先)

2018年16周: 呵护你的工具

这周以学英语为名，看了一个纪录片，叫《空中浩劫》。飞机虽然事故率低，但一出事，能活下来就是奇迹了。感叹那些成功迫降的机长，娴熟的技术，准确的判断和对所驾驶飞机的了解程度都非常重要。

人有多依赖于工具，离开地面才知道。记得上次去云南骑马，遇雨，山路泥泞打滑，这种情况，自己两条腿是没发下山的。只有紧紧的抱住马脖子，期望马不要滑倒。也许只有这个时候，你会觉得四条腿是极好的，一条腿打滑，还有另外三条可以支撑平衡。当马是唯一可以依赖的伙伴时，一切就都不一样了。

呵护你的工具吧！

2018年15周: 人生需要抢戏

我发现自己一个很大的缺点：遇事时总想着别人先上。就这样，大学时错过了入党，工作时错过了晋升。我可以舔着脸骗别人，这是舍己为人的大无畏精神。但我自己知道，这是我身上的缺点，如果有一天，你感觉到别人对你的期望超过你自己对自己的期望时，你就知道了。

人生没有彩排，每天都是现场直播。如果人生是一场大戏的话，好演员是最容易抢戏的那种。还记得赵本山拍《乡村爱情》的时候，范伟就很抢戏，结果他的戏越加越多，分量也越来越重。谁都不能否认，范伟就是一等一的好演员。

工作中也需要抢戏，任务源源不断，bug 层出不穷。如何在繁长的工作中抢戏，是每个职业人都应该考虑的事。而最痛心疾首的是，当有机会摆在面前的时候，自己却不具备抢戏的能力。所以，平时积累很重要。

2018年14周: 清明节

西安貌似为了成全“清明时节雨纷纷，路上行人欲断魂”这句话，在清明节前一天刮大风，接着降温，接着下雨。短短两天，把气氛做的像诗里写的一样，我想杜牧一定会感激西安的，感激西安没忘记他这个老乡。

西安对异乡客居的人，可没有这么在意。异乡人在西安，如果不回家，清明节的悲情就淡的多了。不虚度光阴的消耗掉三天小长假，才是最重要的事。其实假期并没有那么长，放一天，补一天，等于没放。我最是鄙视这种假期的。

常常想着，假期一定要做很多很多事情，结果每次到假期，都是好好放纵自己，就那样瘫躺在床上，拿着手机，一待就是一整天，动都不想动。

时间啊，你为什么走的比我快？！！！

2018年13周: 回家

这周是娃第一次走长途，难得的是，一路上居然没有哭。

下周娃不在，是时候开始开活了。

再次告诫自己：电视毁所有！电视毁所有！电视毁所有！